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Abortion - a question of Morality or Legality?

Submitted by Jaysworld on Wed, 2014-11-26 21:30

Jane has been seeing her boyfriend for over a year now without any sexual involvement. Recently, when she turned eighteen, she thought now that she had come of age, she was free to express herself as desired. So, off she went on an adventure of lovemaking as she allowed this boyfriend of hers pluck her flowers. One month of constant sex and she finds out she is pregnant.

She tells her boyfriend about it, but he quickly counsels her to take proactive measure as he was not ready to be a father since he was only twenty-two and still schooling.

Can a poor man find love these days?

Submitted by Jaysworld on Fri, 2014-11-21 10:37

Money has been aptly described by some as “The Secret Currency of Love”. And who would deny the authenticity of this assertion? You bet no one!

Some are of the opinion that love makes the world go round, but some others preach that it is MONEY that makes the world go more round.

Why Do Lousy Ladies Attract Calm Guys?

Submitted by Jaysworld on Tue, 2014-11-18 11:06

So, I have known this very lousy lady for quite a while now, who irritates nearly everyone who comes in contact with her. This is not to say that there isn’t a jot of niceness in her. Of course, she does as I have known her for many years now. However, truth is that her lousiness is just one of her own weaknesses. After all we all have one or more areas of weaknesses to deal with, or don’t we?

Operating a joint bank account with your wife - is it wise?

Submitted by Jimmy on Sun, 2014-11-16 07:36
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The responsibility of raising kids is for both parents. Some couples therefore set aside a jointly operated bank account for this purpose. The joint account is often separate from other personal accounts for some families. Each person contributes to the "family" joint account from their personal, private one.

The advantages of running a joint account could include financial transparency. Both people know what comes in or goes out. Its a system based on mutual trust. BUT, is it open to abuse? Can it lead to any significant issues?

Toned versus Regular Sized Guys?

Submitted by Jaysworld on Tue, 2014-11-11 16:25

How do I look?  How attractive am I?  These are some of the questions that have become a cliché with not only ladies but guys too.  With Hollywood celebrities dictating the pace of how the fashion trend should be run, it is no wonder some guys want go to any length to look attractive to catch the attention of the opposite sex.

Ladies, would you date a man 15 years Older or more?

Submitted by Jaysworld on Mon, 2014-11-10 19:36

So, I have this uncle who is about 15 years older than his wife. This might sound like a typical Nollywood movie scenario; but truth is that it occurs in our societies.  I do not envy such couples at all because they are two generations apart which makes me ponder even harder how they ever got attracted to one another in the first place.

Could she have really found him attractive in the real sense? On The other hand, the question of whether he was attracted to her shouldn't be contested since men would always find ladies attractive no matter the age.

Who is more likely to love at first sight? Men or women?

Submitted by roxxette on Sun, 2014-11-09 14:22
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Time and time again this question has been asked. There are studies reporting that men are guilty but I want to put it to the "Shakans". Who falls in love quicker? The men or the women?

Hey! its no sign of weakness as I sense all the guys will "macho" up and pretend they don't cry and crave a cuddle from their women in private. Am not biased either. Sorry if it comes out that way.

Why are Young People Afraid of Committal Relationships?

Submitted by Jaysworld on Sat, 2014-11-08 21:40

If you have ever been in a relationship where you were too scared to make a commitment, then you just might agree with me that relationship that leads to marriage is one that requires a lot of dedication and sacrifice on the parts of the lovebirds involved. The benefits of a marital relationship are immense, little wonder some folks run away from making any commitment at all.

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