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Should I say Yes even though he isn't handsome?

Submitted by Jimmy on Mon, 2014-11-10 14:00
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Someone needs your advice, here's her story:

“One of the things I look out for when I consider when I am about to enter into any relationship is that the guy must be drop dead gorgeous because I love fine boys and I want to be able to date him and love him enough not to ever consider another man as fine. However I have not dated anyone in the last three years because the ones that have been coming my way are not that fine.


Anyway, there is this guy who my Pastor just introduced me to as she is worried about my single status being that I am old enough to be in my husband's house. The guy she introduced me to is tall, a Pilot, very Godly but the only thing is that he is not fine. He says he wants to get serious with me and looks forward to us getting married but when I look at him, I don't want to look again because he isn't handsome.


My girlfriends are saying I should just manage him and that I would develop the love for him as time goes by. The question is, would I ever be able to love him and can a woman really manage a man who isn't up to her own personal standard?”

What’s your take on this?

Submitted by dracula on Mon, 2014-11-10 19:52

If you are worried about looks then you are not really ready to marry. You said you are old enough to be married but you are worried about looks. The guy is a responsible professional. A pilot! Sorry, but you are a confused, immature girl.

I am a toad! I cant stop yap yapping!


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